Wednesday, April 16, 2008

HaVe yUo EvER???

have you ever denied your feelings
for someone because your fear of rejection
was too hard to handle?

we tell lies when we are afraid...

afraid of what we know,
what others will think,
what will be found out about us..

but every time we tell lie,
the thing we fear grows stronger..

..life is all about risks and it
requires you to jump..
don't be a person who has to look back
and wonder what they would have
or could have had..(,"(,")

6 comments:

Unknown said...

Hey cuz, I have a tag for you. You don't have to do it now...just save it for later when you have more friends to tag;)

bobbyboy said...

Hi Chie, great job with the new blog design!

"have you ever denied your feelings
for someone because your fear of rejection
was too hard to handle?"

I think this is probably true in my case. I can't say for sure because I have never put myself in a position to be rejected by a female, but I think it may indeed have something to do with a fear of rejection.

I have learned in my life not to lie (Although white lies that can help someone I find acceptable). I tell the truth in the most non hurtful way that I can, if I don't tell the truth, I am setting myself up for future problems.

Nice post Chie!

bobbyboy said...

Oh, just noticed that you added the links to your friends :)

May I suggest something?
You have my website on my blog link. This is my blog link: http://bobbyboys.blogspot.com/

Also, you have Jades two blogs as the same blog lol.

Just some helpful advice from a friend.

Keep up the good work Chie!

Chie said...

Hi Bobby, Everyone has fears. Sometimes this fears interferes with our courage to do things...lol!
We really have to "FACE OUR FEARS" ayt?!


And Thank you for the advice...
I'll do it...
Did i made the wrong links??
ooops! sorry...;-)

bobbyboy said...

Yep Chie, I agree. We all need to realize that we have fears, identify them and work through them. If nothing else, we can lessen the impact that fears have in our lives.

Ah, I see that you corrected the links...good job!!

Blog on Chie, blog on :)

Chie said...

Hi Bobby, Thanks to you, my blog looks good now.

Thanks for the tutorials. ;-)

 
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